MODULE 1: GUILT
This module explores how to manage the understandable feelings of guilt that relative caregivers may experience as a result of changing family dynamics and loyalties
MODULE 2: LOSS AND AMBIVALENCE
This module explores how kinship care creates interruptions of the caregiver’s plans, priorities, space and privacy and how these can contribute to feelings of loss and ambivalence for the relative caregiver. It is critical to understand how these feelings can become risk factors to permanency planning.
MODULE 3: PROJECTIONS AND TRANSFERENCE
This module explores projection and transference, which are psychological terms about unconscious processes where we redirect our emotions from one person to another. They are frequently observed in families and are not inherently bad. But, they can become a risk factor in kinship care when negative feelings about the birth parents are transferred to the child in care, leading to “re-creating the monster” and “self-fulfilling prophecies.”
MODULE 4: HOPE, FANTASY AND DENIAL
This module explores how one person’s hope can be another person’s denial. Understanding how important hope is for family members is critical to empathetically working with caregivers in maintaining their hopes while making alternative plans if hopes aren’t realized.
MODULE 5: LOYALTY ISSUES
This module explores how to assist caregivers in prioritizing their dual loyalties between the birth parent and child; and manage their feelings of betrayal.